You Don’t Have to Know It All: Why Great Leaders Ask for Help
There was a time in my leadership journey when I believed I had to have all the answers.
As a woman leader, I felt the pressure to prove myself—to never fail, to never slip, to strive for perfection. I thought if I didn’t have it all together, I’d lose credibility or respect.
So, I pushed forward. I put my head down. I worked harder. And the cost?
I unintentionally created distance with my team
I spent hours spinning when I could’ve simply asked for help
I shouldered more than I needed to, leading to unnecessary stress and burnout
I limited my growth by not learning from those around me
It took time—and a few hard lessons—to realize that leadership isn’t about knowing it all. It’s about knowing yourself and knowing when to reach out.
When we ask for help, we open the door to stronger leadership.
Here’s what I’ve learned: The best leaders lean on others.
They know their strengths and recognize when someone else’s expertise can complement their own. They build support systems—within their teams and beyond—that help them move forward with clarity, confidence, and impact.
Here are 5 powerful benefits of asking for help as a leader:
You build trust. When you admit you don’t know it all, others feel safe to do the same. That’s psychological safety—and it’s the foundation of strong teams.
You strengthen collaboration. Reaching out invites others in. It creates shared ownership and stronger outcomes.
You unlock new ideas. Someone else’s perspective might be exactly what’s needed to break through a challenge.
You reduce burnout. You’re not meant to carry it all. Asking for help protects your energy and mental wellbeing.
You model healthy leadership. When your team sees you ask for help, they learn it’s okay to do the same. That’s culture-shaping behavior.
Asking for help isn’t a weakness. It’s a leadership strength. It takes self-awareness, courage, and humility—and those are the exact traits that define strong, effective leaders.
Now what?
Here’s your call to action:
Think about where you’re currently trying to figure it all out on your own.
What would change if you invited someone in?
Whether it’s a team member, peer, mentor, or your personal board—reach out.
Let support be part of your leadership strategy.
Because you don’t have to go it alone. And frankly? You’re not meant to.
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